acting with integrity is basically about "doing the right thing."
sometimes this also involves being honest. sometimes it seems the 'right' thing to do is maintain our honesty but soften it as well, if a person is in a lot of pain for example, then the right thing may not involve brutally direct sharing (no, i'm not talking about lying to spare someone's feelings - i'm talking about reining in the bluntness without sacrificing the core truth of the message; if someone is in tears, we can be honest without being blunt if that would fit in with our personal values. but i do realize for some people, it is acting with integrity to be blunt and direct no matter what).
honesty and integrity are definitely related, and often in the same camp, but i think acting with integrity involves more than just being honest. it also involves sincerity and authenticity - it's all connected to truth, but the ways it relates to truth can be slightly different.
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