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Originally Posted by DarkSociologist

I would give him a few days and see if he gets back to you. In the mean time, I would seriously think about alternative solution in getting your project done. If you continue to rely on him, then you are at his mercy. :T It's important to remain courteous, but it is also importain to remain in control.

hi DarkSociologist, we will meeting up tmr. But I've a very ill feeling about tmr meeting judging by the way he sent out the "invitation" email and without the project excel updates sheet list.

My guts feeling telling me that he might be nasty tmr and he might even trigger a stop order on this project.

The reason i feel this way is not because i wanted to attact "it" to happen but i want to prepare on how should i re-act if it does happen. ( Should i just agree on it or try my best to persuade this guy using all the theories that I've learnt from the self help books. ) Applying a "theory" wouldn't be easy especially dealing with people.

When we meet tomorrow, if he is really being nasty or whatever, should i say something like "OK,I know your frustrated and I'm sorry that it happen between us, but i really hope that you can continue the project as is already 70% done". (hm..sounds good? )

I would try to be nice with him and control my temper. However, if he want me to compromise everything with whatever he say, probably I need to find the alternative solution.

You are right about i'm at him mercy as I think that it's still the best solution if he can complete the project.

It's important to remain courteous, but it is also importain to remain in control.

thanks.. this give me something to think about..