Just wondering James, if you're 21, why are you still living at home? Do you not want to leave your brothers behind? Was just wondering that as you're obviously old enough to live on your own and therefor wouldn't be stuck smack bang in the family confusion zone? (I don't mean that in any nasty way)
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Well I think it was very responsible of the lady to give you her number and to tell your mum to contact her.
I'm sorry that your mother put you in this situation and you're mother should have never burdened you with her thoughts and negativity.
I think it's great that you were able to look at the situation and really see right from wrong.
Maybe try sitting down with your mum and explaining how you felt with her reactions and tell her your the child and you should not be dealing with this and as an adult she should know this. I've had something similar happen with my family (not as bad), but bad mouthing family members that I have to deal with. It makes it hard when I have to see the other family members at get togethers.
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Good luck