javamannen2, ewww that is such a terrible word! Your mother would be ashamed of you. (Mainly because you wouldn't be here if people were
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There isn't actually much you need to do in my experience.
Once you set a goal and get yourself on track with it you will find your energy levels automatically rising, and your sex drive automatically decreasing.
It doesn't totally dissapear, but what was a daily urge drops to weekly or monthly.
If you persist in having copious quantities of sex then you will find that your energy levels diminish again.
No need to be to dramatic about the affair. Because indulging in celibacy or abstinence when you have the desires still, is forcing your body into something it doesn't want to do and will just result in you losing even more energy fighting your guilt and desires.
Find your meaningful purpose, get on purpose with it, and the drive will drop. Simple and effective.
