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Originally Posted by wadoo  Hello,
Firstly I want to sorry for my English, because I am not a native speaker.
So, I have some problems with my social skills and I really want to fix it. I don't know whether there are any people in this world, who have the same strange fears  |
Believe me. Everyone has these fears. I mean it, EVERYBODY. You're not alone.
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By the look I am pretty confident guy, but I have some strange fears. One of them are to go out - I'm afraid of meeting people. I don't know what is it, but I am afraid of that.
I am even afraid of going in my balcony and just read there, because I don't want that other people will see me |
My whole life I was like this. About a year and a half ago I decided I have to stop this and I did. I could not go into a shop and buy something not to feel stupid or be afraid. I finally found the solution and I am free right now. If you begin your path to get rid of these fears today, trust me, in one year you will be free.
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Any ideas how to fix these problems? I would be really really grateful if you could help me a litle bit.
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Don't look for a "fix". If you will, you will fail. You won't find it. You're not a car that has broken. Realize that you have been like this all your life and to change this will require an enormous amount of energy, will power and time. I say 1 year of constant, daily practice. Are you ready for this journey? Are you so fed up with this fear, are you so sick of living in fear that you are willing to spend time everyday to improve yourself?