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Originally Posted by yossarian  And so our challenge for the Earthly existence is to choose. To pick a side, to discipline our personality, to make a path for ourselves in whatever way we feel is best. |
Well I'm still testing/evaluating the hypothesis that grey is a valid strategy. In other words, the idea that a conscious person can embrace nonpolarity (or dipolarity) and be just as well off. That involves seeing both as part of the same continuum and being able to flip from one to the other easily. Hypothetically, this is a learnable skill. But not necessarily an easy one.
I can say love is the foundation of my life, that I ultimately want to serve others. But I can also say self-interest is a useful perspective to have. Not wanting to appear weak, transmuting fear to resolve, taking pride in myself and what I can do, etc. can be powerful strategies. And can be ultimately used to serve those I love. Just as surrounding myself with positive people ultimately serves my self-interest, making me happier, more powerful, and more effective.