I am not sure whether it is necessarily a soul "connection" in such a case. It may simply be that you pick up on subtle behavior traits that you have come to associate with negative character attributes.
And while sorting people into drawers is something you shouldn't do and then forget about them, there are certain characteristics and patterns that reappear in different people, and that you then may recognize in someone you newly meet.
Although intuition, at least for me, plays a big part in getting to know and understanding people.
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