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Originally Posted by moviestar  I know you have rules, but they all can be bent if you meet the perfect guy or the circumstances are just right (like nobody will know about you having sex with him). That's what I'm interested in. |
That's quite a big assumption.
For me to have sex with the perfect guy.......the circumstances would have to be that we were married. Really old fashioned I know...but I thought I'd just throw a wrench into the assumption that all the rules can be bent if I meet the perfect guy.
And the perfect guy would have to have that same value, and basically have the same beliefs that I do. And after that the list gets quite long.
(I considered making that list, but it doesn't matter....because I know this isn't what you're looking for. But from someone who's been married for 25 years....when I was committed to that person (married) was when I had sex with him. And for 25 years, neither of us has had to wonder when the next time we'd get laid was and by who....it was a given.
It's an old-fashioned plan that still has a lot of merit.
