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Originally Posted by carenkh  I wonder how much would shift for you if you dropped the thought that this was a way to get your ex back? It seems like with that dangling over your intentions and actions, you're holding back on some freedom. |
This is good. Yea, unfortunately your feeding that situation energy by taking the effort to not contact. Let time pass...that's the good part of what you're doing...but you have things to learn about why she left you..and thus how you could evolve and maybe have a shot at getting her back. At the very least you may learn what she needs out of a relationship you cannot or will not give. Remember, sometimes people want impossible things of us so maybe it's good to have lost them. Sad but true.