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Originally Posted by Kindred  I find happiness in having friends and family living unconsciously, knowing that the more times I ring in their lives, the more they wake from their deep slumber. Sure they might not wake up in this life time, but at least it gives their spirit something to work with.
I don't see it as losing energy to them per se, but instead as giving them energy to help them grow.
Think about all the people that helped Steve grow, all the people that helped you grow, all the people you've helped to grow, all the people helped to grow by the people you've helped grow, and so on. In the end, by helping others grow you are really helping yourself grow.
Shake the pond, baby!  |
Great perspective, Kindred. I found it very inspiring.
To be at the place where you are, I have to do more work I guess. You have this energy that seems to flow freely. Instead, in my case perhaps part of it is restricted. What I need to learn is how to hold on my own when I come in contact with such people.
I agree with the growth perspective. It feels good, too. In my case, I have the hardest time in dealing with relatives who have no idea what personal growth is. And in some cases, their only goal is to see what advantages they can get out of the relationships. In such cases, I have a hard time dealing with them patiently.
Can I borrow your relatives for a while?