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mtrimpe · 03-09-2007, 10:29 AM

OK, I understand all that. There is something in me however that says if you can't do everything together then you haven't found your true soulmate yet.

I think it's because I'm not talking so much about physical closeness, I am more talking about pursuing the same ideals; closeness in purpose.

When I'm working and my partner is too, I can still feel like we are together, working towards an ideal of financial freedom. When my partner goes to the store and I go get videos, we are still together because we're both pursuing the goal of enjoying some together-time as soon as possible.

I guess I dream of a relationship where you can
A. Truly follow your own life purpose.
B. Where all the time you spend together is devoted to achieving the shared aspects of your purpose.
C. Where you strive for your a complete convergence of your mutual purpose.

--> so that you can spend all of your time together.

Does that make sense?

P.S. @RTWolf
Of course I am dependant, but so are you I believe.
I know how to be very independent and can do it very well.
I'm now actually in the process of figuring out how to become healthily interdependant.

03-09-2007, 10:29 AM	#7 (permalink)
mtrimpe Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 127	OK, I understand all that. There is something in me however that says if you can't do everything together then you haven't found your true soulmate yet. I think it's because I'm not talking so much about physical closeness, I am more talking about pursuing the same ideals; closeness in purpose. When I'm working and my partner is too, I can still feel like we are together, working towards an ideal of financial freedom. When my partner goes to the store and I go get videos, we are still together because we're both pursuing the goal of enjoying some together-time as soon as possible. I guess I dream of a relationship where you can A. Truly follow your own life purpose. B. Where all the time you spend together is devoted to achieving the shared aspects of your purpose. C. Where you strive for your a complete convergence of your mutual purpose. --> so that you can spend all of your time together. Does that make sense? P.S. @RTWolf Of course I am dependant, but so are you I believe. I know how to be very independent and can do it very well. I'm now actually in the process of figuring out how to become healthily interdependant. __________________ Is that what you want to do? OK, cool, great, teriffic! Then go do it! NOW! What's stopping you? Go for it! Come on, GO! Last edited by mtrimpe; 03-09-2007 at 10:34 AM.