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Originally Posted by john6630  Hi NightOwlVision, Shindra and all,
I have been doing a lot of thinking about SubR and ObjR. In the end it all boils down to a belief system...but here is the rub for me ...
I lost my 30 year old son 3 years ago. In your post, Shindra, you atribute that loss to my unintentional manifestation - he is dead or in the past because I think it. Here is my delima, I want very much to have my son back. Not a day goes by that I dont ask the Universe to return him...yet I can not manifest this -the most powerful desire, intention, I have. So if SubR is the only reality and is MY reality, why can't I manifest this intense intention? And even though I can not manifest this very strong intention, I am still expected to believe I can/do manifest more mundane desires? I do believe in the LoA. I have many examples throughout my life where it has and still does work for me. But I know of no way the LoA brought this event to me. I can only see how this happens if I am a SubR within the greater context of an ObjR and within that objective reality, there are events and laws that I do not manifest and can not control.
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My big issue with SubR is that the answer is always the same...it is because I made it so... I am having a hard time accepting that. I do believe in the LoA but within the limits of an ObjR. And I find the possiblilites so much more satisfying when I believe I am interacting with other SubR's in that wider reality.
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So, there you have my paradox...my son's death, my strong intentions and the lack of manifestation. As far as I can see (sadly), once dead, always dead since that is the law of the Universe. |
Please excuse the relative lateness and unrefined nature of this reply. I am taking time to work on myself and am therefore mostly not online.
If you strongly think that you want your son to be alive, that will be your reality/experience - wanting your son to be alive. Remember how The Secret tells us to feel as if it's real in the present.
Bringing someone back to life is a huge thing within the strong belief systems that this is impossible. It is also an either-or thing, your son cannot both not be in this physical reality and not be alive - which means you must be 100% sure that it is possible, and that it is so, that within the next five minutes your son is going to walk through that door... Beliefs create. There cannot be a shred of doubt.
Also, acceptance is important. You sadness that your son is dead, your fear that it is irreversible, makes you focus on thoughts that scream 'he is dead'. You'd have to make this 'not so horrible', or make a complete choice to simply cause yourself to 'know that it is so' that your son is alive.
How would you feel if you knew, knew for absolute certain, that your son wasn't dead? Or you knew for absolute certain that you had a genie in a bottle that could grant you such a wish?
I do not expect you to make this possible for yourself. It is an enormous shift. But I would like you to know that everything is possible.
How would it be, what would it look like if your son suddenly popped back into existence? Or perhaps a body was created out of energy that your son then inhabited, returning to this realm from the spirit world?
What might be much easier for you is to manifest the ability to hear and see spirits - and thereby your son.
It also seems that you do not WANT to take responsibility(control) for everything, for death. That is your choice to make. Do you really want to believe that you can bring people back from the dead?
fear creates it's own reality, as well as love and gratitude do.
This is only my response. Believe whatever you will.
here's some pages from a blog on psychic ability:
Are you sure you can’t hear your Spirit Guides? Who are you talking to when you talk to yourself?
I myself uncovered my ability to speak with spirits through exploring imagined personas in the depths of my mind. Things like - "if I knew the answer, what would it be?" imagination got me around limiting beliefs that I did not have that answer, and opened my mind to greater sources of information. -Though I have currently blocked my ability because of fear.
Don't try hard, don't expect anything to work right away, just let your imagination unfold, listen to voices within, whatever kinds of personas you find easy to imagine. In my experience this will eventually open your mind to thoughts/impressions occuring in your mind from 'other' sources. I think you would be too tense if you started this thinking about your son,
trying to hard and therefore not
doing. Get an imaginary friend. Imagine how someone very wise, intelligent and knowledgeable would answer this or that question. Do this in a playful way, don't push yourself. Then when it starts to seem like the answer are coming from somewhere else - "however did I come up with that?" - do it some more, until it becomes a common occurence that you get answers that seem beyond your mind. Then see if you can communicate with your spirit guides. And once you've verified that, you can ask your son for his presence.
The good thing about being able to talk with spirits yourself is that you don't have to rely on someone else and figure out whether they are the real deal, of course. But if you are tensing, grieving, in a hurry, do a search on psychic mediums and read about others' experiences with them to see which are genuine.
May you have peace.