Family mess, please help Hi guys , I'm having a tough time figuring out some stuff and i would like to get some second opions to perhaps clear up a few things.
I have address this issue elsewhere on this forums, but as a continueation to my problems i thought it deserves it's own thread.
My family includes a my parents, me and 2 younger brothers.
my parents don't like each other, my mum owes alot of dept and has left my family to work elsewhere and to hide from the dept collectors.
My dad seeing the oportunity decides to bring home another lady, which i think is wrong. My dad is hard to get along, i have tried and ended up regretting it. My mother tells me that if i want i can just leave, go and find an apartment somewhere.
My dad goes out all night with this new lady, or he stays home in his room with her, he doesn't really care about my younger brothers much, leaving me in charge of them most of the time so he can go out worried free.
I don't know what else to do now, my family is breaking up. my mum has told him to stop having his affair in front of the kids, meaning my brothers, cause i already know. But he continues to bring that lady home all day.
I really want to move out. My mum is going to come back and take one of my bothers and move somewhere else, then i can have the option of living with her or move out myself. I don't know what to do, i feel sorry for my brothers, and don't want them to be seperated. I also feel sory for my mum who need financial and emotional support.
Can anyone give me some suggestions, thanks. |