Perhaps the method is slightly different for different people, in the same way that some are better at learning via auditory means while others learn best from visual material.
Worrying too much about specific wording always feels to me as if I were treating the universe as if it were something immature - like spelling things out to a small child. For me, when I can feel as if I'm living with something I dream about, it's usually a short step until I actually am. Now I'm just learning to dream bigger