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Old 03-08-2007, 03:14 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Transcendent View Post
I think you have to be physically attracted to someone for it to work.
If you're not physically attracted to someone, no amount of personality can overcome that. Likewise, someone with a bad personality can't make up for it with any amount of good looks.
With all that in mind, if you already find someone attractive and they have a great personality, it makes them even more attractive, I think that's the goal.
Yes, I agree with this 100%. I believe that if you're not physically attracted to someone, then the most you can ever be is good friends.

As a sidenote, I've read a lot of material on 'seduction' (that's a crude term - the stuff I've read also covers a lot between the different mindsets of men and women), and it seems that men tend to place a lot more emphasis on physical attraction for the opposite sex than women do.
It's just our nature.
Why else is it that female models, strippers, and pornstars are far more successful and prevalent than their male counterparts?

Sorry to go off on a bit of a tangent.

I read everyones' comments so far and I appreciate the feedback!
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