It isn't just naive, it seems a bit misguided to me. Wanting to be close to another person and do stuff together is admirable, however you might want to ask yourself if you're not dependant on the other person. Just a shot in the dark, here, but you might think of that.
I think the most effective belief in this case is what JHL said. You are indeed two independant people choosing to share a part of themselves. You don't have to do everything together.
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