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RedneckGyrl · 03-08-2007, 01:03 AM

The reason why I am asking this, is because hubby and I have our own law of attraction as well as intentions to manifest....our wishes to have his daughters from a previous marriage in our care.

Their mother is neglecting them in every area and breeding hate and disrespect towards their dad. Their life is so out of control that they have been in trouble with the law, their grades are severely failing and they think their dad doesn't love them and shows all sorts of disrespect towards him. Mom has used their anger towards him as a tool to persuade them to not see him...and they haven't for a year.

We want to see them grow and prosper in every area of their lives and we feel that we can help guide them on their paths to everything good for them, just by being the example for them to learn from. We want them to know the truth about how much their dad loves them....and me....and that we would go to the ends of the earth to help them develop their own awesome law and attraction as well as their own great intentions to manifest.

So, we just recently filed for a modification of the parenting plan. Now, my concern here is.....our intentions will conflict with the mother's intentions, of course. Since this is the case, how is it that we justify our intentions trumping over another's intentions, even if we feel ours is for the best interests of the girls?

It would have been better if mom's intentions were to see the girls living the best of life as they could and perhaps allow us to help her raise the kids more. It feels sorta uncomfortable having to use the court system, who we all know is banking bucks off from people not able to get along....but, in this case we feel we have no other choice.

But, what if she is supposed to go through mothering those kids for a greater good of some sort and we are just hindering her from her journey as it should be? Don't know if I am making sense, but all I know is we love those girls and we don't want to hurt the mom by doing this, we just want the best for the girls.

Thanks,
Amanda

03-08-2007, 01:03 AM	#1 (permalink)
RedneckGyrl Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 14	LOA/IM - When my reality conflicts with another's, how does one deal with it? The reason why I am asking this, is because hubby and I have our own law of attraction as well as intentions to manifest....our wishes to have his daughters from a previous marriage in our care. Their mother is neglecting them in every area and breeding hate and disrespect towards their dad. Their life is so out of control that they have been in trouble with the law, their grades are severely failing and they think their dad doesn't love them and shows all sorts of disrespect towards him. Mom has used their anger towards him as a tool to persuade them to not see him...and they haven't for a year. We want to see them grow and prosper in every area of their lives and we feel that we can help guide them on their paths to everything good for them, just by being the example for them to learn from. We want them to know the truth about how much their dad loves them....and me....and that we would go to the ends of the earth to help them develop their own awesome law and attraction as well as their own great intentions to manifest. So, we just recently filed for a modification of the parenting plan. Now, my concern here is.....our intentions will conflict with the mother's intentions, of course. Since this is the case, how is it that we justify our intentions trumping over another's intentions, even if we feel ours is for the best interests of the girls? It would have been better if mom's intentions were to see the girls living the best of life as they could and perhaps allow us to help her raise the kids more. It feels sorta uncomfortable having to use the court system, who we all know is banking bucks off from people not able to get along....but, in this case we feel we have no other choice. But, what if she is supposed to go through mothering those kids for a greater good of some sort and we are just hindering her from her journey as it should be? Don't know if I am making sense, but all I know is we love those girls and we don't want to hurt the mom by doing this, we just want the best for the girls. Thanks, Amanda