i realized the date of the discussion only after i almost finished writing this. i don't know how things turn out for you rockchick but i'll still post my opinion anyways in case someone else is going through similar experiences.
hi rockchick, i came across this discussion on google when i was searching for information on soulmates. i've had a similar experience a few months ago where i met this great guy and synchronicities and signs seemed to suggest that he could be my soulmate. there are many small 'signs' but the one that stuck me(and i believe him too) the most was when i looked into his eyes for the first time. i felt like i was being pulled into his eyes and i felt like i can do anything i want since i'm 'home.' he chased me for a few weeks but certain things prevented us to be together and we don't see each other anymore. maybe i should make a new post for my situation too..
anyways, i've since read tons of books, interviews etc. on this topic and did a lot of reflection and introspection myself. i knew pretty certainly back then when we were on, that it was NOT the right time for both of us. i'm a huge believer that there is a time for everything. when the time has come, nothing can prevent it. but if the time has not yet come, there is nothing we can do to force things to happen. all the efforts then makes you desperate and needy, which is NOT good. katie holmes said in some interview that she knew she was going to marry tom cruise when she was young. but she didn't act on her knowledge/belief but simply lived her life as she normally would and basically have let go of the idea. i think that's how she was able to become the person she was when she actually met tom cruise.
let's assume that the rock star is your soulmate. imagine that he can somehow see you and your life at the present state. would he like what he sees? would you be proud to shown him? would you like him to see you being desperate and needy or happily living your life?
i think the best thing you can do..rockchick..as someone who's had similar experience, is to move on with your life and let go of your desire to be with him. focus on being a happy and satisfied person. that is probably the best thing you can do to manifest him into your life if he's really your soulmate. on the other hand, if he's not, you don't loose anything either. if your visions are true, then at the right time you two will eventually be brought together. in the meantime, just live your life as you normally would.
hope you the best and let us know how things turn out!