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Originally Posted by Kingston

Or they simply enjoy to see them happy, knowing they are the cause of this happiness, and is thus a reflection of their own beauty and power. Notice that this last effect resembles lightworker love, but has a different WHY behind it.

So lightworkers also want others to be happy but for a different reason. What is that reason difference?

Knowing that someone else is a cause of their happiness sounds like codependance and is usually thought of as unhealthy or something to grow from.

To enjoy the company of their lover, they will have to make sure he or she is satisfied enough to stay around. So if they are not giving to them because they just like watching them being happy, other possibilities exist. Their lover has hopes and fears (unless they are enlightened, but that is a one in a million event). They can know these with the probable dark insight they have in the beloved. They know them and can control them, so they can take away the fears and fulfill the hopes, provided they have enough power. This will make them extremely attractive to anyone with a lower or equal level of consciousness.

Yikes, know them and control them! How does that help flow of love and intentions of having a harmonious relationship?

So in short, darkworkers protect or care for the people the want to be with for whatever reason. They give them what they know their lovers want, so they can take what they want from them.

This sounds like more game playing. Giving so that they can also take that away or stop that - sounds like manipulating behaviour. Why is this a good idea to guide people into applying?

We can look at the ideal case as a thought experiment: Think of two exactly the same relationships. Viewed from the outside, the behavior is the same, the talk is the same. If we look inside the minds, we see EXACTLY the same intentions. The amount of energy flowing is the same. ONE thing is different: the DIRECTION of the flow. Like a circle going clockwise or counterclockwise. It has no net effect on the flow. This is somewhat abstract, but I hope I have made things clearer.

The direction of the flow changes? That actually contradicts my thoughts that there is always inflow and outflow and as such their directions are their own particular way. The inflow does change to outflow. Wouldn't you think?

Only at lower levels the relationship can become unworthy. The same with lightworkers.

Anyway, I had an image that there is a flow and it's going out of you as well as coming into you. And if you aren't blocked you are not in danger of becoming a self deystoying darkworker or a drained lightworker. So there's already a natural give and take that is there when things are healthy.

Now for this nutty image. Imagine there a pumps for the inflow and outflow. The inflow pump sucks energy to you, then outflow blows energy out of you. The darkworker plays with the pump that sucks in and almost lets the outflow pump just be idle but not blocked. And then the lightworker maintains and keeps the outflow blower going and lets the sucker be idle and not blocked and energy does get in.

However I don't really get what the perceice qualities of the sucking pump are and the blowing out pump are. Or why turning on both pumps would cause a "cancelling out" of the intentions. It seems that you could have some really great flow if both the sucker and blower pumps were operating in syncronization.