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kravin · 03-07-2007, 12:51 AM

modern_monk,

Thanks for the reply, but perhaps I need to clarify what I meant by 'mentor'. I'm not looking for a personal development coach, and I'm certainly not looking for someone to coddle me and live my life for me.

Suppose, for example, I wanted to get into real estate investing. A possible mentor in this case (by my definition) would be someone who has been a private investor for a number of years, has a good working knowledge of the industry and the people working within it, and who has achieved the kind of results I was looking at. Now, far from holding my hand, I would look to this person to be able to:

Answer any specific questions I have about the field (or point me to resources that could)
Be a sounding board for my ideas, and
Encourage me to pursue my path (both actively and through example)

My concept of a mentor is someone with a specific experience that I would like to tap into. Not someone to coach my whole life, but just act as a beacon for a particular goal I've set myself.

Now what I was hoping to do by starting this thread was get together some ideas and discussion on attracting/seeking mentors for the various goals we may have set ourselves, and the issues of being a mentor or a mentee.

I hope that makes things a bit clearer. Does anyone here even have a mentor-mentee relationship with another person? How did your relationship with them start? Have you found it useful and fulfilling?

03-07-2007, 12:51 AM	#4 (permalink)
kravin Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Perth, Australia Posts: 10	modern_monk, Thanks for the reply, but perhaps I need to clarify what I meant by 'mentor'. I'm not looking for a personal development coach, and I'm certainly not looking for someone to coddle me and live my life for me. Suppose, for example, I wanted to get into real estate investing. A possible mentor in this case (by my definition) would be someone who has been a private investor for a number of years, has a good working knowledge of the industry and the people working within it, and who has achieved the kind of results I was looking at. Now, far from holding my hand, I would look to this person to be able to: Answer any specific questions I have about the field (or point me to resources that could) Be a sounding board for my ideas, and Encourage me to pursue my path (both actively and through example) My concept of a mentor is someone with a specific experience that I would like to tap into. Not someone to coach my whole life, but just act as a beacon for a particular goal I've set myself. Now what I was hoping to do by starting this thread was get together some ideas and discussion on attracting/seeking mentors for the various goals we may have set ourselves, and the issues of being a mentor or a mentee. I hope that makes things a bit clearer. Does anyone here even have a mentor-mentee relationship with another person? How did your relationship with them start? Have you found it useful and fulfilling?