[Kingston]

This is how a darkworker gives love.

It is not the case that a darkworker never gives. That would imply that a lightworker never receives, and that is not so. Just remember that the one flow is generated by yourself, and the return flow is response to that. If the dark one 'takes' from their lover, SOMETHING will flow back. If nothing flows back to the lover, they lose the lover, and this is the karmic payment that was due. But lets assume something flows back to the lover:

A darkworker wants the person to be with him or her for some reason; it might be sexual or aesthetic pleasure, fear of not being recognized as important, or they want to be seen with this person in public. Or they simply enjoy to see them happy, knowing they are the cause of this happiness, and is thus a reflection of their own beauty and power. Notice that this last effect resembles lightworker love, but has a different WHY behind it.

To enjoy the company of their lover, they will have to make sure he or she is satisfied enough to stay around. So if they are not giving to them because they just like watching them being happy, other possibilities exist. Their lover has hopes and fears (unless they are enlightened, but that is a one in a million event). They can know these with the probable dark insight they have in the beloved. They know them and can control them, so they can take away the fears and fulfill the hopes, provided they have enough power. This will make them extremely attractive to anyone with a lower or equal level of consciousness.

So in short, darkworkers protect or care for the people the want to be with for whatever reason. They give them what they know their lovers want, so they can take what they want from them.

We can look at the ideal case as a thought experiment: Think of two exactly the same relationships. Viewed from the outside, the behavior is the same, the talk is the same. If we look inside the minds, we see EXACTLY the same intentions. The amount of energy flowing is the same. ONE thing is different: the DIRECTION of the flow. Like a circle going clockwise or counterclockwise. It has no net effect on the flow. This is somewhat abstract, but I hope I have made things clearer.

Only at lower levels the relationship can become unworthy. The same with lightworkers.