I agree with Amanda, in that it seems that it'd be best to talk to her one-on-one. Not many people have experience with this sort of thing, so I would suggest looking for books on communication. Some good ones I've found are Crucial Conversations, Difficult Conversations by Anne Dickson and Difficult Conversations by a whole bunch of people.
If you have a friend that seems to have a knack for delivering bad news or dealing with people, you might consider asking them for advice. Alternatively, you could find some sort of counselors and ask their advice as well.
If you believe in a benign universe, then perhaps this is an opportunity for you to face someone or a situation you perhaps subconsciously felt you didn't deal with properly. It takes courage to do something like this.
Also, as Angela said, you might want to try to understand where she is coming from and why she acts the way she does. You could try finding out why she's decided to restart your friendship, however be careful of assigning blame or getting angry. Be genuinely curious and you can learn a lot about others and yourself.
Good luck and hope this helps!
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