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wolfgang · 03-06-2007, 08:43 PM

I'm not sure why I'm not getting this polarity stuff but here's how I think after reading your post.

If you are a darkworker that is focused on getting more love because you are polarized to get love but not return love, then I don't see how others are receiving any love from you.

I suppposed once you bump up against some uncomfortable pressure from the love ones that are giving love to you, you yeek out some love reluctantly towards them.

And so the darkworker has to compensate the polairty every once and a while to keep from being all clogged up. I don't see how a darkworker can let the giving occur is he/she is polarized. Once the darkworker gives some up, the polarizing is gone - oh no, he/she slipped into the lightworker side.

It also seem pretty constricted to be motivated by fear of lack, of future loss that make you want to make sure you get more and more love. That seems to go against many things I've read about fear (probably even Steve wrote about) being a cutting of off feelings that help LoA kick in. Fear of lack of love is the kind of vibe (from what I've read about LoA/IM) is a focus on lack, which supposednly brings more lack to you.

I just can't seem to get the polarized ideas. I only see it as blockage type stuff when the darkworker is polarized he/she is blocking the giving, once the giving happens there's no polarization.

Same with a lightworker. Once the lightworker starts to receive too, the polarization goes out the window. And, Steve's blogs say things, like, a lightworker needs to be able to receive as well to keep from being a lightworker syndrom patient.

03-06-2007, 08:43 PM	#2 (permalink)
wolfgang Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,084	I'm not sure why I'm not getting this polarity stuff but here's how I think after reading your post. If you are a darkworker that is focused on getting more love because you are polarized to get love but not return love, then I don't see how others are receiving any love from you. I suppposed once you bump up against some uncomfortable pressure from the love ones that are giving love to you, you yeek out some love reluctantly towards them. And so the darkworker has to compensate the polairty every once and a while to keep from being all clogged up. I don't see how a darkworker can let the giving occur is he/she is polarized. Once the darkworker gives some up, the polarizing is gone - oh no, he/she slipped into the lightworker side. It also seem pretty constricted to be motivated by fear of lack, of future loss that make you want to make sure you get more and more love. That seems to go against many things I've read about fear (probably even Steve wrote about) being a cutting of off feelings that help LoA kick in. Fear of lack of love is the kind of vibe (from what I've read about LoA/IM) is a focus on lack, which supposednly brings more lack to you. I just can't seem to get the polarized ideas. I only see it as blockage type stuff when the darkworker is polarized he/she is blocking the giving, once the giving happens there's no polarization. Same with a lightworker. Once the lightworker starts to receive too, the polarization goes out the window. And, Steve's blogs say things, like, a lightworker needs to be able to receive as well to keep from being a lightworker syndrom patient.