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Old 03-06-2007, 05:16 PM   #1 (permalink)
peejay
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Default Any advice would be appreciated

I am new to the forum but any advice would be appreciated. My issue involves a person with who I was friends for a long time. I decided for many reasons to end the friendship because I felt that it was a very negative relationship and far too competitive. I did not feel that the other person really considered me a friend but rather a rival and just wanted to best me at everything. I did not feel good being around this person. I just let the relationship drift and did not pursue contact with this person. They did not pursue contact with me either after a while and I thought I would just move on. This person has since resurfaced in my life and is now insinuating herself into my life and I feel powerless to get away from her. I have joined several local groups and have spent a great deal of time cultivating new friendships and now she has joined the same groups and is constantly asking me to include her in my activities. If I don't include her she contacts another member of the group and asks them to include her. I do not want this person to know who my friends are because I know she will actively pursue her own relationships with them. I don't particularly dislike this person, I just don't want to be around her and now I feel that I have to either include her in all my activities or leave my groups and friends and go and find others. I have tried to use the Law of Attraction to resolve this situation but I think I have probably made it worse by actually attracting her into my life. Does anyone have any advice how I can turn this around and find some kind of peace with this. Can you use the Law of Attraction to remove something or someone from your life?
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