[soccer7]

alrite guys, i got one for ya. i am currently working on my fears everyday, the funny thing is the more i try to relax it out of my life the more i feel it, its like as soon as i think of it and the things i'm trying to put myself through i get hit by crytonite, dam.

But that's not the question, my question is when asking out a girl that i don't know who goes to the same educational institute as me, should i go read some books and listen to experience people's suggestion or should i just go out all natural and go in and ask with an honesty and confidence.

so basically, do girls prefer confident and straight forward guys or do they rather prefer guys with the right attitude. Because i get the feeling that being too confident and straight forward to someone you don't know might scare them, but i like to be straight forward.

I'm doing this to overcome my fear of asking someone out on a date, but i am also worried that if i do get a date, what will become of me then - i.e. fear of success.

hmmm, this is abit confusing, so i'll summerise it here, i want a girl friend but am afrain to ask someone out on a date, and afraid i'm not good enough because i don't have much time, money and confidence to protect them if bad guys were to bother them, arhh, i got so much fear ! Dam you Objective reality !

ok any opions are good, thanks