Originally Posted by Penelopi
Like for ex i think positive but im unconsciously an unhappy person(for some reasons), that's what i mean by screwed. is that possible??
really?? but what if they see something bad on the sit that i don't see?? im in trouble then.
cn u explain further? w/c reality do we live in?? is it objective or subjective??
edit: ok i made a research, i get it now. now that i think of it, my subjective and objective reality are all over the place.
While some people have an easier time being happy than others I believe we can all achieve "unconscious" happiness through practice.
Whenever you feel bad about the situation, start watching how you think about it. Try to guide yourself to thinking a little bit more positively about it. Take small steps. Gradually you will condition your subconscious to think more positively about any situation.
To begin with good and bad are value judgments you place on things. If someone else finds that something in your situation is bad, that doesn't mean that you would. I'm sure there are people who would hate to live my life, while I love it.
If you feel a sense of impending doom about using LoA to your advantage, that is probably the first bit of thinking you want to try and redirect. How you think about LoA is going to make a lot of difference in what it can do for you.
I find it hard myself to integrate the idea of a subjective reality into all aspects of my life. While I firmly believe that LoA is one of the fundamental laws of human existence there are a lot of areas where objective reality is firmly ingrained in my head and it's hard to let go of that. But I'm sure we can both get there.
One simple trick that has benefited my a lot is to think or say "wow! That's great!" whenever something happens that I don't like. This tends to force my head into finding a positive side of things and starts me on the baby steps of thinking more positively about it.