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Originally Posted by 1000feet  Lately I've been considering the disadvantages of each side, such as the claim that darkworkers can't enjoy a relationship with someone else that isn't based on themselves. |
A darkworker can have the same quality of relationships as a lightworker. Remember: Ultimately they lead to the same place. There exists "dark" literature on love and lust working this out. I even suspect that there can be a stable bond between a darkworker and a lightworker, provided they have the same level of consciousness. But other variations are possible. This are just abstract descriptions or indications; endless variety is possible. Remember that someones level can change through the relationship. This can be a great opportunity for love for either side.
Low polarity light + low polarity dark
Will be either conflicted and annoying, or boring and stale. We see this everywhere.
High polarity light + low polarity dark
The light side can give what the lower craves and sooth his or her fears with love. Rarely sexual I guess, more like an enlightened rescuer model.
Low polarity light + high polarity dark
Typically innocent girl with the bad boy her father tries to protect here from (in vain!) Think "Dangerous Liaisons" (or Cruel Intentions with Ryan Phillipe an Sarah Michelle Geller). The next relationship for the light one will be a heaven of relief
. The dark one will love the light one like wolves love sheep. Very tasty and juicy, especially the fresh teenager lambs.
Or if the darker one is a woman; we see this all the time in the nightlife, when the frustrated loser picks up the bill for the drinks of girls with expensive taste.. And goes home alone afterwards...
High polarity light + high polarity dark
May be a rich businessman with a sociable wife doing full-time charity. Tested and proven for 200 years.
Both low polarity dark
Think "Requiem for a Dream". Abusive, like a low-life pimp and his whore.
Both low polarity light
Working hard, going to church and keeping the kids out of trouble. Sometimes happy, always boring.
Now we get to the really good stuff..
Both high polarity light
Like Steve and Erin. Bless them. Need I say more?
Both high polarity dark
May be sado-masochistic on different levels. Can also be some profitable alliance, like Brett Easton Ellis' Evelyn and Patrick, without the xanax and the bad temper. Or Anna-Nicole Smith with that worn-out billionaire... Ore Mick Jagger getting 'served' by his groupies.. Or simply "dinky": Double Income, No Kids.
Like I said, these are examples, many variations, both good and bad ones, are possible! Try to come up with better ones and post them up here! Especially the last two are worthy of thought, since they are great motivators. Maybe Steve, in his nearly infinite love and intelligence, can work this out further
Take care.
Edit:I just posted a better view of dark relationships. They is no visible difference between a dark and a light relationship at the highest levels.