[wolfgang]

Originally Posted by nownow

@Velorien

I guess its the way my mind works. Direction is relative and ultimately unreal and so it must lead to its opposite... which ever direction you head in you will end up in the same spot. In my mind, a darksider is anyone who operates from a dualistic perspective; pain will lead to joy and joy to pain, they give and must take,they are trying to get somewhere. A lightsider is one who is not focusing on giving or taking since giver and receiver are one, the motivation is oneness not giving. So why even consider polarity since this is a concept from objective reality. To focus on sides is to debunk everything the LoA is based on. I may not be making sense

Makes sense to me. I waslistening to a Hale Dwoskin mp3. I think he was in the Secret. They were talking about the Sedona Method were the technique helps release attachment to feelings - all kinds of feelings (in/out good/bad). That it's not the feeling that is the limiting behaviour, its' the resistance to allowing the feeilng to come and go in a natural way. And that once one is not holding on to feelings of anykind or having resistence to them, one can be in the state of love (the love of the kind that transends duality).

But then the LoA stuff says you have to be jazzed about the goal to have it kick in - so maybe once one gets clear and out of the duality of god/bad feelings the love that shows up is exciting such that the LoA kicks in because - (like you said) oneness is the motivation.