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Dani · 03-05-2007, 08:08 AM

Why feel guilty?

You were doing the best you could with what you knew. There is nothing to feel guilty about. To feel guilty will just soil the future with the taint from the past.

I am glad she is in remission btw.

If you want to improve your chances for the future, be grateful for the present. It is the single best way to manifest a nicer life.

Stop feeling guilty about the past and worrying about the future and be grateful she is in remission, getting healthy and still with you.

It sometimes helps to write a list of all the good things to remind you what you have to be grateful for.

Write it out, laminate it, and put it on the wall somewhere you will see it every day. Do that for a few weeks and I guarantee things will look better for you.

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Dani Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 305	Why feel guilty? You were doing the best you could with what you knew. There is nothing to feel guilty about. To feel guilty will just soil the future with the taint from the past. I am glad she is in remission btw. If you want to improve your chances for the future, be grateful for the present. It is the single best way to manifest a nicer life. Stop feeling guilty about the past and worrying about the future and be grateful she is in remission, getting healthy and still with you. It sometimes helps to write a list of all the good things to remind you what you have to be grateful for. Write it out, laminate it, and put it on the wall somewhere you will see it every day. Do that for a few weeks and I guarantee things will look better for you.