Hi Pavel Alaseev, If I got that right.
No offense taken. I basically, just try to work from where I am to the point where I'm going to be, and I work w/others, starting from where they are. Many times, if I were to be indiscreet in my vocalizing my thoughts, and opinions to others, I run the risk of frightening them needlessly. Each person is at a different level. My method does not emphazise me. The emphasis is on my relating to each, depending on their level of comfort. I have easily blown away, what could have been a good encounter by insisting on putting myself (out there) to some people, and I frightened them. I caused them to go backwards instead of moving forward, so to speak. So, I choose to be kind, and not push others to quickly. Confidence has nothing to do with discretion. Or it could be referred to as tact.
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