People on the forums are the same people as in real life. Hopefully none of us are really computer programs in disguise, trying to mine what it means to be human.
Just believe that you'll find what you're looking for and that will train your mind to keep a look out for it. If you think that you won't find them and that people on the forums are untrustworthy, then that's all you're going to find.
I would say that the people here seem like good people, but then again many people here believe in subjective reality. This means that they might not believe in good and bad themselves.
A solution for you would be to:
1. Keep a lookout for what you want.
2. Engage in interactions with the people that you want to work with
3. Build trust over time
4. Mobilize your army and take over the world!!!!