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Old 12-19-2009, 08:32 PM   #5 (permalink)
Coffeesmurf
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Originally Posted by PhoenixFlames View Post
Ok so how reliable is online Dating?
Has anyone here used Plentofish, Match.com, a non descript Online Dating Site etc etc.
Just as reliable as dating "in the real world". The initial contact is made online, but at some point you'll need to start dating each other.. so not much different in that regard. One advantage is actually getting the opportunity to see if you have similar values or interests before contacting a woman - something that's harder to do in a club, where it's more a matter of attraction.. and people aren't necessarily looking for anything serious.

The disadvantage is not being able to see/hear/sense the woman in the initial online interaction, which - worst case scenario - might lead to a disappointing first date. But the way I see it - having a cup of coffee with a nice woman, who you might not be sexually attracted to, is never a waste of time. Just show up at the date with an open mind and without any attachment to outcome (something I'm sure you'll know all about from PUA).

As for there being something wrong with single women at your age.. that just an absurd claim. I've dated quite a few single 30+ women from dating sites the last year or so and they've all been nice, healthy, mentally stable and very successful women.

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