If you don't know what you're doing, don't give advice.
Nothing more annoying than stopping to ask for directions and having someone "trying to be nice" leading me astray.
IMO, the whole polarization thing is crap. If you're all outflow you're burn yourself out, if you're all inflow you'll be unhappy (because of the human need to contribute).
Somewhat ironic that Steve talks about how you must choose between giving and receiving (recieving means you're a bad guy, "darkworker
) on a page with Advertisements (inflow/bad guy status for him) all over him it.