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My girlfriend dumped me a week ago - it wasn't a long relationship (two months) and the breakup had been brewing for some time. Surprisingly, I'm already OK again now and feel ready to start dating again.

I reactivated my online dating profile and during the last three days, three different girls have sent messages wanting to get to know me. Obviously it's very new, but they all seem like good candidates whom I have a lot in common with - all of them are active, love travelling and enjoy participating in sports. I'm on the dating site to find a long-term relationship and so are the girls that I'm now writing with.

I don't have a problem with writing to all three. I know from experience that it's not uncommon for people on dating sites to just stop writing/responding and sometimes you find out you're incompatible and never get to the actual dating part. I am, however, hesitant when it comes to the prospect of potentially dating all three at the same time. I know that I'm technically single and allowed to date whomever I please - but I can't shake the feeling that dating more than one girl at once is somehow wrong. Also, I don't like the thought that one or more of them could get hurt in the process.

I'm pretty conflicted. On one side, I'm interested in finding one girl to build a relationship with. But on the other side, I think that dating several girls could really help me build more of an abundance mindset when it comes to dating.

Any thoughts on the matter is very welcome. If you were a girl on a dating site looking for a serious relationship - how would you feel knowing the guy you're dating is dating other people as well?