I don't think it should be your place to say anything to your father or this woman. I think that You need to concentrate on yourself, and on your brothers.
I think if you are feeling that you are lacking courage then you should consider how you are thinking about things. You need to tell yourself and KNOW that you have courage for anything. You also need to feel happy...
What I do when I am feeling overwhelmed by something is I sit down, and think of all that is good in my life that I am thankful for. Doing this helps me to feel good, and to refocus myself to get where I want to be. After I do this I can hold the image of where I want to be in my head and my actions will bring me towards that, if that makes sense.
It's not an easy thing to do at first, but over time it will get easier. The most important thing for you to remember is to take care of YOU.
I'm sorry I could not be more help... just remember if you believe you have courage, then you will have it, and if you dont... then you won't. And, you need to have courage for you, first and always.
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