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Old 12-15-2009, 12:42 AM   #114 (permalink)
Andrew Gubb
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Originally Posted by joelr View Post
Do women consider the "Alpha male" to be a positive trait?
It works well with chimpanzees.

Last I heard although the majority does enjoy confidence, attractiveness, and high financial staus - which is often associated with alpha - it's far more important to possess the ability to compromise, to discuss feelings and to be sensitive. Traits associated with beta. Aggression and disregard for others is also a part of alpha traits.

To say alpha males all end up as an overweight grumpy guy who sucks at communication and has the spiritual development of a stick, would be too much of a generalization. But it seems like alpha isn't the best long term choice based on what is needed for relationship skills.
QFT.

Too much bulls*t in the seduction comminity saying aggressive and dominant is best.

No, INTELLIGENCE, AUTHENTICITY and BALANCE IN ALL THINGS is best.

If that means you should work on being more "alpha" so be it, but alpha is not the one and only answer.
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