 i don't have enough courage
hi everyone, i have some family problems that i feel like sharing to ease some pain,
my parents don't like each other, my mum has left home temporarily to hide from dept collectors, my dad has given on my mum and decides to bring home some lady while my mum is out.
my mum told me to be firm and to tell that lady not to come over again, i did but in a more polite way,
she said "i understand your family situation, but i'm only here to help out your dad with stuff like shoping list and give suggestion like a friend thing"
i said " its ok if you come over but don't sleep in my parents room"
she said " sometimes i go stay here late and your dad insist i stay cause it's dangerous driving home late, i said but that's not really good, and he tells me its ok, don't wory, so thats why i stayed. but ok i'll try not to sleep over anymore"
i told my mum today and she said i was too nice and that the lady was lying, she could have went home earlier and such. she told me i have to tell the lady again to not come over at all. its not so much about what i think, its just that i have 2 younger brothers that shouldn't be subjected to this type of thing.
my mum said its ok for my dad to go do what ever he like somewhere else like a hotel or something, but just don't take it home and put the kids in any kind of pain or such. my mum doesn't really care about my dad anymore, she only wories about my two younger brothers.
but i don't think i have enough courage to say more, i am afraid of my dad and interferring with his affairs even though i know that its the right thing to do but i am still afraid.
what should i do?
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