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e.g. You (this one is personal) probably at least started to wrap this particular post in an abrasive tone of voice when you started reading it because you saw me as that way in the previous one.
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Ahh, I must admit that's a possibility! I remember feeling quite flushed
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We all do it btw. Showing someone their mirror works both ways.
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Absolutely - we're still agreeing with each other.
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I forgot the third thing that makes people angry.
When they do see their mirror. People often get upset when they someone doing something they hate about themselves, or something they wish they could do but feel bound by 'morals' or the like so cannot do. They turn this internal resentment against the other person.
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Very true. Kudos.
I remember when I used to go to a gym, some people get personal trainers who were buffed, no body fat.
Other's went for the pleasantly plump person.
Others went for the girl with the naturally thin bod, never worked out a day in her life.
Still others preferred the woman on steroids!
I always wondered about that, on what did they base their decision.
My point is I only observed that your tone was abrasive, it's not a character assessment at all. but I did wonder if you were speaking to me personally and now that you've cleared that up it's all said and done.