I think Fritz Perls said it brilliantly in his
Gestalt Prayer:
„I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it’s beautiful.
If not, it can’t be helped.”
- Fritz Perls, 1969
"Your thing" being whatever you enjoy for itself, not because it makes people like you.