Hey Nina,
Congratulations on the first day of The Rest of your Life. It will never be as hard as it was yesterday. I went through a horrible break up nearly three years ago, and it took time, healing and patience. Yes, you will love again, and yes you will feel joy and happiness again.
Right now, it's your relationship with your Self that is most important - most of all you need to show your Self love. Act toward your Self the way you would want your Perfect Partner to one day. Tell your Self every day when looking in the mirror how wonderful you are, and how much you love You. Eat well, exercise well, dress well, live well... You have so much Love inside of you to share, so why not focus on sharing it with the most important person in your life right now... You.
You can't change what has happened, but you can choose whether or not you think about it... shift your thoughts always to the present... to the Now... to your new life.
Much joy,
Kara-Leah
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