Dear STA, you have a valuable life. Don't forget that inspirational loving light at the end of the drama, the nice people in your life, this forum (hurraah
) you feel it's looking bleak for you at the moment, but things will change, they always do. Time heals heaps and
you choose where you want to go. It's that simple.
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It would be so much easier if one person was just perfect in a relationship and the other a slug - so much easier to make the other person "wrong." I'm truly about ready to give up - and on myself. I can't take much more of being so alone in life - it's not that I don't love myself, I do.
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You are not alone, you haven't been. You feel you are and yes that is sad. But you don't need a partner to be happy in life btw. And that's no mindless yabber. I'm not saying it's always easy, but heaps of people can and so can you. You have found the forum, you are building on your own strenght. You don't need a man in you life who is dragging you down. Bottomline. Don't go there. Just the other day you said:
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Tomorrow morning, first thing, off to see a therapist... and then need to focus on my work for the day and also getting an appointment for a medical exam (never had high blood pressure before - now I've got it...so, need to get that in check)...
If people are interested, I'll post something every day so we can see how/if all this works!
Thank you so much for your support. I was desperate and really down and now I have a sence of hope and healing because of your emails..
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So keep at it please. They way to go is forward. We support you at the forum (if I can speak for the others that is).
A lady who taught me self defence years ago said one day when a girl broke down and sobbed about something being too hard for her 'don't cry, use your anger'. She meant it for the girl to focus and to take herself out of the victim mentality. To find her strenght in the found anger to get her going forward.
Don't let your ex partners get you down. Choose to 'live, live, live!' There's neat people for you to meet out there and for you to discover things about yourself you didn't know you had. Like power. because you have that.
And keep us posted...