This helps a great deal. I never heard someone say to do nothing. I always thought there is a reason. It should be enough to accept what I know and be confident in that. That takes strength. I have noticed trying to control it doesn't work. I always thought gifts are meant to be used. So again I have a struggle. I love the peace you have about you position on this. I have to do some self searching about it. As you can see this has been the story of my life. just let go vs.. try to control it. I usually let go out of anxiety frustration not because I freely chose to.