hey STA -- i just wanted to say, having gone through a breakup not too long ago, you will get through this.
the one insight that came to me when i was despondent and just wanting to hear his voice/kiss him/feel his arms around me one last time was "there is nothing for you there."
seriously, what good will talking to him do? obviously, he is telling himself a different story about this situation than what you perceive to be reality. he does not have the answers you need -- talking to him is not going to get you anywhere good.
the only thing that will make you feel better is sheer number of hours logged away from him. start logging them now. and be gentle with yourself. watch the entire series of "sex & the city" and eat chocolate. you'll get through it, i promise (says the girl who just did all this, and did get through it, just barely).
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