I also wanted to clarify that the intense circumstances surrounding her asking me to be her girlfriend included a conversation where she spoke about her "practical" (pessimistic) opinions on relationships, an uncomfortable dinner she had with an ex she dubbed "crazy", and her taking me on a tour to visit 3 groups of her friends over the span of a day. As well, she drinks quite a lot too. She's not an angry drunk or anything, but I find drinking a lot a bit unattractive and that's all she does when she goes out with her friends. I wish I can suggest somehow that I would rather her spend time chilling out with me and watching a movie at home rather than binge-drinking 5 nights a week. I don't know. I extremely like her, and our personalities match well and we get along great. It is just all these underlying things that are starting to get to me.
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