I find myself drawn to happy, vibrant, and positive people. A big part of the reason is that they are not judgmental, preachy, and have no need to feel morally superior to others. They also
walk their talk instead of just doing drive-by sermons.
A friend and I were both struck by this exchange between an audience member and Michael Beckwith and James Ray on the second Oprah show about The Secret. The audience member is stuck on judgment issues.
The two exchanges begin at 7:50 and 13:00
Oprah Show
Pay attention to everyone's body language, facial expressions, and energy as you watch. Who is walking their talk?
I know which type of person I would much rather spend my time with.