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Old 11-23-2009, 04:44 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Smile WHY Law Of Attraction works for some people and why only sometimes for others.....

Have you noticed that the law attraction works for some people and then for others it works only sometimes or rarely or only on small things or maybe in only works in some parts of your life and refuses to work in others.

I’m not a really big of the movie The secret even though I bought a copy when it first came out. I’m not sure what the directors intention of “the secret” was, maybe to gain popularity and be able to produce other products, books, ebooks and seminars, etc. which is why they chose such a clever name for the title. The content of the movie is missing some important components, I’m not sure if it’s made that way so that people get confused and start buying whatever else the actors in the movie are selling or was it to make it really appealing to the audience. With just these 3 easy steps: “ask, believe and receive” you can have anything you want, sounds a little like an infomercial. If that’s all it took, than there would be no LOA seminars, courses, books ebooks, etc. It’s kinda like the all the drug companies see more money in making drugs to help deal with a problem instead of finding a cure that will end the problem.

Ok so here is why the law attraction doesn’t work all the time
I’ve been using the manifesting technique before the secret movie came out, I’m sure people will disagree with me, but for me it doesn’t work the way they describe it in the movie, there is a missing component. First of all, if you are trying to manifest something that goes against your core belief, you can do all the affirmations, desiring, visualizations, vision boards and believing you already have it, if your core belief is stronger than your desire than it will not happen. Most of the time it is and you don’t know it, because you had your core belief since you were a child and your desire was more recent. Most of your beliefs are subconscious, you don’t even realize you have them, one common belief that people might relate is “life is a struggle”. Maybe you saw your parents struggle to make money and that’s what you subconsciously believe. You might want to believe that life should be easy, but than if you really sit down and think you realize that it can’t be. So now if you try to visualize an easy life where you sit at the computer for about 5 hours per month type a couple things and see huge checks coming in your mail, this will contradict with your “life is a struggle” belief and not happen. Then you will get frustrated and realize that life is a struggle and which will strengthen your “life is a struggle belief”. The only way to get this to work is to find what your core belief is and clear it. If you can’t manifest something in a certain areas of your life like, money or relationship or health and looks than it’s probably your core beliefs working against you. The more you do your law of attraction steps and the more you get frustrated that it doesn’t work, the more you will confirm that it doesn’t work so if could actually start working against you where in the past it worked at least on little things, but now your belief is that it doesn’t work so it never works anymore... but your other belief is "life is a struggle" so you keep doing it.

How about little things that you want to manifest
As long as what you want does not contradict with your core beliefs, than you just pretty much need to desire it, think about it, believe you can get it and then just completely forget about it and usually shows up as soon as you forget about it. I think the reason you need to forget about it is probably because if you desire something and think about it, there might be a small feeling of desperately wanting which prevents me from getting it.

Anyway, this is just what works for me not sure how it works for others. I really don’t talk to anyone about it because most people don’t believe it and I don’t feel like arguing with them and attaching a feeling of doubt and frustration to the law of attraction when I think about it.
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