I perceive this subject of polarity and polarization as yet another model of reality. Like there are many different ways to describe and explain something, or just specific parts of that something. Some explanations are better suited for emphasizing determined aspect or have a more easy grasp of the idea that one wants to convey.
I also find this model somewhat incongruent with the subjective model of reality, but, for that matter, it is equally accurate in its own way. They just refer to other aspects of reality. A good analogy would be one person trying to put a rocket in orbit using quantum mechanics, when perhaps it could be easy(?) to do so using classic or relativistic mechanics.
I liked this post and will do some experiments in that matter. For now I just say that I'm on the edge of the choice, and the dark side sometimes knows how to show itself to be appealing ...
but, then again, the light side too...
just my cents 2