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brendannz · 11-21-2009, 08:07 AM

I think the whole university / college life = the best life, is a bit of a myth myself. I was much happier after uni..

The mistake I made in my younger days, was I put too much emphasis on getting the piece of paper, and not enough on the joy of learning and being in the moment. Basically I got duped by society thinking the piece of paper would be the gateway to everywhere, that you get the right job, never have to work in McJobs again, have everything paved your way.. and so I didn't do enough planning for my career.

I think the best thing for you to do instead of saying "I'm wasting the best years of my life" you should be trying to enjoy these years while you have them, and look at creating the awesome future you deserve. Start imagining yourself in the job that would have you excited about getting out of bed in the morning. Brainstorm ways to make new friends, meet new girls etc. I'd also recommend Paul McKennas book.

You have a lot of future ahead of you, start being excited about it!

11-21-2009, 08:07 AM	#5 (permalink)
brendannz Family Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,612	I think the whole university / college life = the best life, is a bit of a myth myself. I was much happier after uni.. The mistake I made in my younger days, was I put too much emphasis on getting the piece of paper, and not enough on the joy of learning and being in the moment. Basically I got duped by society thinking the piece of paper would be the gateway to everywhere, that you get the right job, never have to work in McJobs again, have everything paved your way.. and so I didn't do enough planning for my career. I think the best thing for you to do instead of saying "I'm wasting the best years of my life" you should be trying to enjoy these years while you have them, and look at creating the awesome future you deserve. Start imagining yourself in the job that would have you excited about getting out of bed in the morning. Brainstorm ways to make new friends, meet new girls etc. I'd also recommend Paul McKennas book. You have a lot of future ahead of you, start being excited about it!