Have you wondered why you've had this sudden urge to move? Why do you want to start over? It seems like you're trying to avoid or escape something. The change you need to make has more to do with yourself than your residence. You're bored, things might be going slow in some areas of your life, and you just want a change of scenery hoping that that will change the way your life is going now. But that's not always how it goes.
It's like a child who sees a toy that is brand new and appealing to them: they want to have it, but when they finally get it they get bored and want to get something new. Friends, family, partners are relationships that have cultivated over time. Are you sure you want to leave that?
Make a list (mentally, or even better, on paper) of what you will leave behind and what you will gain if you move to another city. Really try to understand what each point means and see if you are willing to deal with the consequences of each.
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