I'm sorry rabbit, but Big D's right.
You're contradicting youreself. First you say you don't want one liners encouraging you, next you accuse Big-D of being non empathetic.
He's entirely right. If i was an employer, i wouldn't consider meeting you.
And there's an elephant in the room right here.
And I'll go ahead and say it, please don't be offended, I don't wanna be mean, but sometimes a
good ol' slap is what people need.
The way I see it, you're not going to succeed unless you change, big time.